In many cases, playing music softly, is sufficient. You don't want to overpower any conversations the guests may be having. There are also themes where you'll want to "turn it up", such as a Fiesta or Rock theme.

• Parties vary and so does bridal shower music.
You may want to use some of the following suggestions.

• Theme party music is available on all different CD's. with a variety of categories from which to choose. Familiar songs will definitely encourage dancing and singing. So, if this is your intention, pick some favorites that most people know.

Beach theme music... your guests will relax with these favorites.

Broadway music... if she loves theater and show tunes, this is a great choice.

Country songs... if your party's "Gone Country" add these favorite hits.

Dance party music... if you want guests on the floor, add these group dance melodies.

Elvis... timeless songs from a legend.

Irish theme music... traditional favorites.

Luau party music... set the island mood.

Mardi gras music... bring Bourbon Street to your location.

Patriotic songs... guests will know the words to these Patriotic tunes.

Salsa... energize your event.

Western theme music... add some country tunes.

Wine bar... cool and easy classics.

• Bridal shower music from a specific era, or group: You're bridal shower theme may be focused solely on a certain group or vocalist. Leave interesting or little-known facts on the tables, about the group, for guests to add to their knowledge. A trivia game, asking questions based on your theme, is a fun idea. And the prize?

How about a cd or a music cd case?