Bridal Shower Etiquette

Bridal shower etiquette covers all areas of the bridal shower. First we'll give a little background information. Then, we'll answer some specific questions.

The bridal shower, through the years, has been a celebration of family and friends with the bride-to-be. Guests brought gifts for the new couple to help them set up their first home. Bridal shower etiquette considered it improper for the immediate family to host the event, as it appeared they would be asking for gifts. Traditionally, it has been the maid of honor's duty to organize the bridal shower, and the bridesmaids' duty to help with the planning. It is often still done this way. However, times have changed and so have some of the rules. It can now be given by anyone close to the bride-to-be. Couples showers are also a fairly new trend.

� When Do You Have a Bridal Shower?
One to two months before the wedding is ideal. Less than a month is hard on the bride, and all involved.

� Who is invited?
Family and friends who are close to the bride. Bridal shower etiquette states that anyone invited, should also be on the wedding guest list.

� Should children attend this event?
That's up to the hostess. The type of shower, and time it is being held, may also influence this decision. Often, children are in the wedding party. In this case, the guest of honor may want them there.

� Should any men be present?
Not unless it is a couples shower.

� Should it be a surprise?
This is optional. If it is a surprise, make sure you're able to obtain a list of who to invite. Pick a day and time that is convenient for the bride-to-be.

� Where should the party be held?
There are no set rules for location. Make sure the space accomodates the number of guests.

Bridal shower etiquette for invitations...

� Who pays for the bridal shower?
Those hosting the event. The amount should be decided ahead of time. It should be affordable for all involved.

� What is bridal shower etiquette for gifts?
Gifts are of a lesser expense than the wedding gift. Want to know more about

wedding shower gift etiquette?

� Can I tell guests what gift to bring?
You should never ask guests for money. You can politely ask them to bring a gift on the couples registry, or suggest a theme related gift.

� Must a gift be from the registry?
Gifts are the decision of the guests. Purchasing from the registry ensures that the gift is needed, but there is no obligation to do so.

� Are favors necessary?
Favors are special mementos. They are nice and appreciated, but not required.

� What do I put on the tag of a favor?
Usually the name of the bride-to-be, and date of the shower.

� What about Thank You Notes?
Thank you notes should be handwritten, and sent within the week after the shower.

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