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Bridal Shower Gift Etiquette
Bridal shower gift etiquette has evolved with bridal showers through the years. There are no "set in stone" rules, but there are some general guidelines. Answers to the following questions may be helpful.
• If the hostess isn't part of the bridal party, is a gift expected?
Gifts aren't required from anyone, but our customs assume that every person will give a wedding shower gift.
• Are guests required to purchase a gift from the registry?
The stores where the couple are registerd, are usually included in the invitation. This gives guests an idea of the couples taste, and items they would like. It is very helpful in choosing a gift. However, noone is required to select from this list.
• What is the proper way to ask guests to bring a gift related to the theme?
The bridal shower invitation should explain the theme, and politely suggest that guests bring a gift that fits in with the theme. Then, it is their choice.
• What is bridal shower gift etiquette concerning money?
It isn't polite to request money. If anyone involved with the shower is asked, they may suggest that the couple is trying to save for a new home, etc. Then the guest may decide to give money.
• Can a gift certificate be given?
Gift certificates are a great idea, especially if the couple isn't registered. Look to their needs, likes, or hobbies.
• Can a large gift be given by a group, instead of separate gifts?
Yes, this is a great way to give the couple something they might really want, but can't afford, at this time.
• Is the bridal shower gift given instead of a wedding gift?
A present is given for both events. In general, the bridal shower gift is less expensive than the wedding gift.
• If invited, what is the bridal shower gift etiquette for children?
Children are often invited to a bridal shower. They may be part of the wedding. No present is required of a child. Often, there is an adult accompanying the child. This adult may choose to include the child's name on the gift the adult is giving. Another option is to let the child give a small gift, such as a candle, teaspoons, etc.
• When are gifts opened?
There is no required time. Generally, after the guests have had their meal, or snacks.
• Who keeps track of the gifts?
The hostess should appoint someone, ahead of time. This person writes down the name of the gift, and who gave it.
• What is bridal shower gift etiquette for thank you notes?
Notes for the gifts should be sent no later than two weeks after the bridal shower.
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